And so ends a great weekend...

            I really don’t mind train rides. I’d mind it less if my back weren’t killing me but that’s life. I’ll get over it. I got the opportunity to go down and visit my sister for a couple of days. Friday was travel day and we went to go see Eric Church. AMAZING show. If you get the opportunity to go, take it. Saturday was a day of food and staying out of the rain. Of course this included things like happy hour and television. Clearly we live on the edge.

           

Our television day was successful. We watched Scandal and so many episodes of Modern Family it was insane. Of course we watched the most recent Grey’s Anatomy episode and spent a good amount of time yelling at the television set because of it. We also watched the Bruce Jenner interview. That… That was interesting.

           

            I will admit, until I watched Keeping Up With The Kardashians I had never heard of him. Maybe the name came up but he was not someone I knew. Once the show started he quickly became my favorite character and I learned a few things about him. That’s why when this interview was first talked about months ago, I didn’t believe it. I thought it was either A – a publicity stunt or B – the tabloids are evil. Many guys have long hair. I’ve seen many guys have painted nails. Nothing surprises me anymore and I took the “let him do what he wants to do” approach to the situation. When my MOTHER (yes, mother) told me he got his Adam’s apple reduced I thought it was a little strange. Again, let him do his thing. Maybe there was a health problem.

            When this interview was aired I was at the Eric Church concert so I did not get to see it live. I heard that 17 million people did so I knew it had to be good. Bruce Jenner was everywhere Saturday morning and we were quickly drawn in. My older sister does not usually get involved with information like this but even she couldn’t look away from the television. This once great athlete, the best in the world, was identifying as a woman. He is going to go through a process to actually become the woman he has always been inside.

            The hardest part for my sister was knowing that he was once this world-class athlete and now he is a woman. I’ll give it to her, it is hard to wrap your head around it if it doesn’t apply to you and/or you don’t know anyone going through that situation. Me? It all made sense. I made the comment (don’t judge), “Of course! He would be a woman!”

            The decathlon is one of the most intense athletic competitions a man can put his body through. The training is intense. You have to be a “manly man” to compete. If Bruce Jenner was confused about being a woman, pulling off a win in the decathlon would be a huge way to try to convince himself that he is just a man. Kind of like, “only the manliest of men can compete in this event. If I win, I must be the manliest man ever!”

            Athletics has a history of presenting that kind of thinking. To do some sports or some events, the thought is you have to be a genuine guys guy. You have to be tough. Once that mentality is created the athlete can do nothing but support it if he wants to be accepted or even successful. If Bruce had any thoughts that he might be a woman they had to be quieted somehow. Training for the decathlon and winning was his attempt to silence everything.

            I feel like you see this a lot in sports. It’s an arena where men are supposed to be men and women are supposed to be women. The sports are separate and the training varies on intensity. To make it big, you have to be the best of your sex. It’s hard. If you are having issues with who you truly are sports are a great way to try to quiet those issues and to put your focus & determination into something else. In saying that I guess Bruce Jenner’s secret isn’t too surprising.

            I’ll support Bruce. I can’t wait to see what the future holds for him… For Her.

            Also, what was with the huge shock of him being a Republican?! Sure Diane Sawyer can accept him really being a her but the fact he’s a Republican shocked her to her core.

            You go, Bruce! I might just be a nobody in Northern Virginia, but I’ve got your back!

I'm Torn!

            The Capitals won!!! 5-1! We are finally up in the series and I am so stoked! Spoke to my boss about it when I came in today which was nice. I’m so very happy.

            Hockey update is over. Now an issue that tears me apart: Kids playing outside. At this point in life, I want it to happen BUT I don’t think it is safe anymore.

            When I was growing up, we played outside. Whether it was out on the farm while my parents were at work or in the neighborhood with the other kids, my sisters and I were outside. We played soccer, we were on swings, we played kickball, there was jump rope; my neighborhood had a pool and for years we would spend our summers there. Also, we would watch each other. Kids would look out for other kids. We were young but we were taught the responsibility that was necessary to look out for each other so that we didn’t need our parents to escort us everywhere.

            Nowadays? No. I want to say kids should be given the same freedom but for a couple different reasons I’m going to say that that would be a bad idea.

1.     Areas are becoming more and more urbanized. There are more cars everywhere. A neighborhood is now just a pass through for cars trying to get to and from work as fast as they possibly can. This is especially true in the Northern Virginia area.

2.     There seem to be more creeps around. I find more and more reasons every time I watch the news to think that children should never go outside to play again.

3.     Immaturity levels are down. I have been observing this for years and I know adults are seeing it too. Those that are growing up even 5 years younger than me are not as mature as the kids when I was growing up and those older than me. I don’t know if it is a different parenting style or what but they act bratty and entitled. They don’t look out for each other, they look out for themselves.

4.     Hover parents. The ones that won’t let their children grow up and succeed because they know what’s best or are too involved with the kids’ lives.

Playing outside definitely helped my development when I was a kid. I had a free space to try out different games and sports.  I made friends and definitely developed personality traits due to these experiences. I started soccer after my sister did but I kept with it because I had fun playing with kids in my neighborhood. I stuck with swim team for years because I could hang out with my friends in a space that was not supervised by adults 24/7.

Children are not getting the same opportunities I got when I was a kid. I know sports shaped who I am and I know I had to rise to the challenge of responsibility when I was still a kid. I wasn’t forced to “grow up” too fast but I was forced to accept the fact that my actions affect others. This lack of opportunity is not their fault. I can’t put it all on the kids. Granted they are inside playing video games more but I want to look at it without attacking video game culture. Without attacking that, I look at the reasons and I don’t know what side of the fence I stand on.

The Boys are Back!!

            I have been waiting for months. I have been waiting since football season ended. THE BOYS ARE BACK!!!

            The Washington Redskins have returned to the area for off-season workouts and training. YES!!! Why am I so excited? This is the beginning of a fresh start. I think it is the freshest start this team has had in years. New GM, new season, no wins (or loses), and new hope. It is a beautiful feeling and I’m trying to make it contagious. Today has been testing me but I am NOT going to let it take my mood away from me. I absolutely refuse to give it that power.

            Looking at the Redskins’ Facebook page and following their SnapChat account has definitely helped to pump up my mood. The players are back at Redskins Park! I’m not going to lie, they’re just lifting weights. It’s weight room activities. It’s the stuff that I see at the gym and it doesn’t even catch my attention. But because it is the Redskins and it is my team, I could not be more excited. Actually I could be. I could try to go to Redskins Park and get an autograph. But I wouldn’t be able to get through the gate or even into the building. I’m also not a stalker or a creep. There is a fine line between extreme fan and restraining order. Never will I ever get to that point.

            I know not everyone is as excited as I am for this day but I also know I’m not alone. There seems to be newfound optimism in the DC Metro Area today. Nats won, Caps aren’t out of the playoffs, and the Redskins are back to work.

            Maybe the DC teams can bring some championship bling back to the area this year.

            Wishful thinking but we got this!!!! :) 

Sports Fans - We Kind of Suck

    The title of this post is not the most loving of my people, but I believe there’s a lot of truth behind it. Sports fans can be some of the nicest people you will ever meet. They will welcome you into their home, give you free food, and provide a loving and welcoming experience that you may never get anywhere else. They will have your back and stand beside you through thick and thin. IFF (a term from math class meaning “if and only if”) you are supporting the same team.

    If you are supporting the opposite team or, even worse, the rival team, that experience is definitely different. They will become loud. They will become obnoxious. They will argue about every little thing. They will pick on you with such gusto you’d think they were getting paid $10 million to do it! But they’re doing it for free.  And the best part? They will feel no remorse about it. If their team wins, you will never hear the end of it. If they lose, excuses will come up for reasons, they will shut down, they will acquire a horrible mood, or it will be a lovely combination of any or all of those three.

    These qualities are true of all real sports fans. We feel such a deep connection to the team that when they lose, it hurts us as well. We can brush it off like, “we had an off game, next week will be better,” but inside we are crying. When something bad happens to them, we take a personal offense. I am a fan of many sports but I primarily follow the mainstream ones. I know someone who is big into the less mainstream ones, i.e. paintball and electronic sports. He claims that only the mainstream sports fans get so crazy. “There’s too much hype for no real reason because the athletes aren’t actually doing that much…” Blah blah blah blah blah. They are athletes. All of them. Mainstream or not, they all go through their own process of training, practicing, and competing. Anyway, when he watches paintball or an e-sport competition, he gets just as bad as I do when I watch football. There’s a lot of yelling (and I mean YELLING) at the screen and the refs like they can hear me. There’s celebration over a win and there is heartbreak over a loss. Mainstream or not, we all have feelings.

    Another thing that all sports fans do that makes us somewhat sucky, when the team wins: “WE WON!”  When the team loses: “They lost.” Not always. I know many times I have said either “they won” or “we lost.” But when the passion is high and the adrenaline is pumping, we celebrate with them but they are on their own when they lose. The wording is fascinating. See if you can notice it the next time you are at a game. Once you pick up on it, it will stick with you.

    Sports fans come in all shapes and sizes but one thing that you can’t really deny, you get some of the most snooty people anywhere in Sports World!! Geez, know-it-alls. You know who I’m talking about too. They are the ones that are quick to jump on you when you get one really obscure statistic wrong. You might say a score wrong or not in the proper way and they are quick to pounce on it and point it out. Oh he is #79 and not #89? My bad. I clearly did not mean to offend you or apparently your entire way of life by saying the wrong number. It was not intentional. Yes I will be more careful next time… Jerk. Mistakes happen but sports fans jump on it like the grammar police on an internet post. We can’t be nice and correct them either, oh no. We can’t say, “Do you mean #79?” The sky would probably fall.

    I could go on and on. I love my people and I hate my people. I am one of the people that can fall into any of these people depending on the team/player/game/situation. Instead of my ranting continuing, I turned to Facebook. I asked my friends what they hated most about sports fans of any kind and here are some of the responses I got (I said I would post no names):

    ”They Yell a lot and take it too seriously.”

    ”That life stops when their team is playing.”

    ”People disagree and get in fights. Also Facebook fees are blown up when teams play.”

    ”That the people rooting for the other team don’t agree with me.”

    ”Fair-weather fans.”

    ”They get really ‘ragy’ when they lose.”

    ”I hate having to look at the naked (sometimes painted) torsos of chubby sports fans, the likes of which should never be unclothed in public. Definitely not okay. Also, the ones who ALWAYS think the refs are cheating for the opposing team.”

I Missed It :(

            I MISSED IT. I am so disappointed. I had the opportunity this past Saturday to go to an Oriole’s game if I helped a friend and her significant other move into their new house. Like a true fan, I will do almost anything for free tickets. Oh, did I mention the offer included dinner and drinks as well? Life got in the way AND I MISSED IT.

            The memories I have that take place at Camden Yards are amazing. When my older sister turned 12 we took her to a game. We all got on the big screen and it was BEAUTIFUL. It’s also the place where I realized I probably am adopted in some way shape or form. I went to a game with my cousins (who are supposedly related to me by blood) and they did not care at all. They wanted to talk about video games. They are my age. We went when I was 17. They wanted to talk about video games. AND MY AUNT WAS ENCOURAGING IT! No. We are at a baseball game. Pay attention to what’s going on right in front of you!

            I’ve gone quite a bit throughout my life but I had never been to a home opener. This was the chance! Free food, drinks, and a baseball game just to help someone move into a house. I wanted to be there so bad! Life. Sometimes you can’t win.

            I heard it was great. They had beautiful weather to enjoy an Orioles win. I had beautiful weather to wish I could have been outside in it. They had a fantastic time and their house is great.

It’s been a couple days and I’m still jealous.

Human Error - Written on Tuesday, Posted on Friday, One of those weeks...

                It’s Tuesday. I've got to say, 99% of the time, my energy level is up. Even at work it remains pretty high! Today… Today is a challenge. I even got my butt to the gym this morning! Normally that puts me in a great place! What is going on?! There is an extremely high probability that the reason for today’s issues is a complete mystery. It could just be in my head. It probably is just in my head. I don’t know!
                Sports. Today. Well, Wisconsin lost to Duke last night in the NCAA Championship Game. I suppose that was a bummer for some people. For me, I love the controversy. Calls were made that should not have been made and if they were called correctly the game could have ended differently. I have seen this many times in different sporting events. It’s the butterfly effect! What if they had called the foul differently? What if the ball was given to the Badgers?
                Usually I try to make this argument: the game results should never be decided by a missed call. People make the calls. People are humans. Humans make mistakes. If you didn't play the game well enough to have some human error thrown in and still win, you did not play well enough. It’s cynical, yes. It’s unrealistic, yes. There have been too many times in sports history where a call decided the game because two teams played extremely well. Among all the cynicism is a little bit of hope. I would like to hope that the better team comes out on top. This is especially true in a championship game. If one team wins because of human error on the part of those officiating, is that necessarily the better team?
                No. The better team does not always win. I’m not saying Wisconsin was better than Duke. As a matter of fact, I have no idea which one was better. I didn't follow either team during the season so I can’t say. I also know people that have gone/have ties to both schools so my loyalties did not lie in one place. But, to quote Amanda Bynes in She’s the Man, “Speaking as a completely objective third party observer with no personal interest in the matter,” it sucks to see many friends on social media upset because the team that deserved to win/played a better game lost due to quite a few human errors. It sucks because they are upset and because it blows up all over my homepage and it drives me crazy. Much like during election season, the complaining is overwhelming and those who are not complaining are being smug trolls.
                Washington area sports teams seem to have this issue a lot. If there is human error, it most likely was against them and it most likely cost them the game. The luck of D.C.? Pretty much. This type of thing is almost a guarantee as a Washington sports fan. Are we used to it? Yes. Does it still hurt? Yes. Do we still complain? Well, we are right next to D.C., aren't we? The area is a hotbed of human error but we will still be up in arms over a missed/wrong call.
                And a tomato juice squirted onto my white shirt. Awesome.

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Seasons Are Changing

            March Madness is wrapping up, the baseball season is starting, and the NHL playoffs are right around the corner. It’s transition time in the world of sports. Let’s get it started!!

            I think this is the beginning of my favorite time of year for sports. Winter is great (Lord knows I thoroughly enjoy hockey) but something is different about that and sports that take place from spring through fall. It’s a more magical time. People are outside. Fans can come together outside and watch their teams while the sun shines and the smell of fresh cut grass is in the air. Nothing brings people together like it.

            I expect great things to come from my teams this year. The Capitals aren’t out of the playoff race and the Orioles have a strong team heading into the season. Even the NFL Draft has me excited!

            It’s worth the time to go to a baseball game. I strongly believe that everyone should go to at least one every other season or so. I would say every season but I can’t shoot for the stars right off the bat. People need to take part in America’s pastime. Grab a hotdog, grab a cap, and root for your team. Even if you don’t like a specific team, baseball fans can be very accommodating for newcomers and interesting to observe. They have some of the strongest loyalties and rivalries in the entirety of Sports World.

            Choose a warm summer day. Grab your friends and a cooler. Seats aren’t terribly expensive… Usually… Enjoy the outdoors and the sport that represents the great United States of America. I’m making plans to travel to Baltimore and Camden Yards to get the experience I came to love when I was younger. Currently I’m deciding between a game vs. the Red Sox or the Braves. Maybe both if I get a good price for them.

            Yup, I am so very excited!

Can't Do Yoga?!

“I can’t do yoga! No one wants to see me bend over!” That has got to be one of my absolute favorite things to hear from people. “No one wants to see me bend over!” It’s yoga! It’s about so much more than bending! Why is it such a big deal? “People are going to look at my butt.” For me, when did it become so sexual and why?

I’ve been doing yoga since I was in third grade. I was never the best at anything until I started it. What, not everyone can touch their toes without bending their knees?! It was a shock to me! I was never amazing at something that my sisters or my friends weren’t just as good at if not better. That changed when I picked up this physical activity. It was never anything sexual. Of course, not at third grade, but even thinking back I don’t remember it being anything people thought sexually about.

Nowadays, you say you do yoga and people picture different things. Quite a few of my friends (male and female) say the same thing. When they think of yoga they think of an attractive woman in tight pants or really short tight shorts and a sports bra bending over. I think this perception really came about within the past 5-10 years due to the rise in popularity of yoga itself and yoga pants. It became popular. It was getting more press. How do you gain even more popularity? Sex.

This is America. Sex sells. Sports and physical activities are not exempt from that lovely fact. Something about relaxation and finding peace along with finding strength and power has turned into sex. If you are going to market a physical activity for things like health and weight-loss, it needs to have an edge. People look for an edge. Are you dripping with sweat at the end? Do you climb walls during class? No. Then how do you sell yoga? You can get fit and look hot doing it. Sadly, it works.

I used to work at a women’s athletic/lifestyle clothing company (I will not share which one) but this came up a lot more than people think. I sold yoga pants that were upwards of $98 per pair. It did not matter how it was structurally better than others and how it might actually be worth the high price for the pair. It didn’t matter! All that the customers seemed to focus on was, “will the pants make my butt look good?” I always thought what does it matter? You’re doing yoga. You’re working out for you. You want to improve yourself. It matters because that is how the pants are being marketed. That is how women are talking about the pants with each other.

I guess we need to change the marketing and change the conversation.